Thursday, December 31, 2015

I Don't Believe in Destiny

I don't believe in destiny. Or soul mates. Or twin flames. Or having someone out there that's especially for you. After my first break up, I realized that we feel that way when we're attracted to someone, but in truth, it's just really a matter of finding someone out there you're willing to spend the rest of your life with. Oh, I still feel attraction. I still long for people I like. But you're not destined to be together. It is a conscious decision of whether or not you want to bind yourselves in the sacrament of matrimony and do life together from then on. That is all. No magic to it.

But of course, a little voice inside of me wishes that someone would come along and prove me wrong.